Monday, October 15, 2012

Writers.

Writers. These are plenty in the world.

There are writers who write to impress. There are writers who write because they are depressed.
Some must write because their heads cannot contain the volume of thoughts their minds produce, and writing is a safe place to park them. To get rid of them for the time being.

Some write to state. Others like to dictate. A few others to educate, propagate.
Some write what they write so people like them. Others don't care.
Some choose to kick up the dust and get noticed. Others, very few, slip under the rug of anonymity and make their work their star.

Some write because they've fallen in love. A broken heart, we know, writes well too. The search to find love, or meaning, is good for poetry.
Some write for immortality. Some, because the wife wont listen.

Some operate out of inspiration, some out of reason, some from the mood. Most reveal to you only the interesting parts of their lives and minds, some do not fuss about skipping lines.
Then, a few good ones are found, who write, because they know no other way. These writers, you read. Them, you look forward to. While their type does give you selfless heaps of rubbish, occasionally you find a literary diamond that makes all the foraging worth it.

So, writers. These are plenty in the world.  And needless to say, they're all fucked up.







Friday, June 15, 2012

The Happy Voice - Old hat, new life.


250743_10151033400698185_1863325633_n( Dedicated to two of my favourite teachers: Sri Sri Ravi Shankar and Prof. Venkatesh Ramaswamy)


I had ordered Sri Sri Ravi Shankar’s ‘An Intimate Note To A Sincere Seeker’ online a few days ago. Couldn’t and can’t wait to read it, received the delivery 15 mins back. Super excited, all set to sit down and indulge in some really uplifting soul-talk, I decide to check out what’s happening on Facebook, to avoid any distractions later. So I sign in and happen to see a link that totally puts a smile on my face.

One of my favourite teachers, Prof. Venkatesh Ramaswamy had posted a link to his blog : “baba venky  --- venky sirs itcha to become baba”. One of my fondest memories of his lectures was the way he would mock all these “new-age” spiritual philosophies, and his impersonation of “Sri Sri Sri Sri Sri Sri Sri” Ravi Shankar (only Venky Sir’s students would know the significance of the extra-Sri’s ;) would have the entire class in splits.

So today, when the sight of his link “baba venky” sent me rollicking right down memory lane, I couldn’t resist telling him about this little comedy of associations and I did.

He replied (on FB) saying - nothing against babaji ravi ji. but most of what he says is old hat.we know it. but dont practice it. anyway read the book if u have paid for it .


The word “old hat” came flying at me in the head. Old hat for what we call ‘new-age spirituality’??? Ironic, isn’t it?

But the fact is that what sounded absurdly anomalistic at first, I realized couldn’t be more true.

Venky Sir was so right. Sri Sri is old hat. Everything he teaches and talks about is old hat. All religions are old hat. All spiritual theories are old hat. There’s nothing new about any of them!

Take any religion or spiritual school of thought, they say the same thing! The basic foundations, the core, the crux, the essence is identical. We know it all, but we don’t practice it.

That’s what Sri Sri says too – we know it all. The soul knows it all. How can we not know our true nature? We are our true nature. Not outside of it. Not inside of it. We are it.

And that true nature, that one eternal truth has been parroted for eons by every religion and faith and spiritual philosophy that exists. And if it is truly the truth, there can’t be versions of it, right? Media differs, not the content! Fundamentally, it’s gotta be the same and it is. Truth verified. Authenticated. Repeated. Regurgitated.Vomited. But we still don’t seem to get it.

So on being and not knowing or knowing but not applying or having the knowledge but not putting it to practice, my take is this:

We are a stubborn species, inherently averse to change. Hence, the solution lies in drilling that voice into your head that nudges you to be happy, irrespective, to the extent that it goes off like an alarm each time you’re on the verge of spiralling down. How do you do this? Take tips from what the television and media in general, has done to us. Subconscious rationalization.

Media has made us believe we need that car, that television, that notebook, that fancy wedding, that 15 karat rock, by rubbing it in all day, everyday, everywhere for YEARS! Slowly but surely, these ‘created’ needs creep in stealthily to be perceived by us as ‘natural’ human needs (Google neuro-linguistic programming or NLP) ! And now there is no other way but to have them! And it’s perfectly “normal” for us as a society to be miserable if we don’t get them!

So yea, do the same, subconscious rationalization, but with a twist. Do it for a good cause. “What you do the most becomes you. You become what you do the most.” or Batman’s “It’s not who you are underneath but what you do that defines you.”

Through practice and only practice and surrounding yourself with things, literature, people, that reinforce and rub in the Happy Voice all the time, comes a point where you don’t need that voice to remind you to be happy. Congratulations, you have been reconditioned into being yourself! Who you really are! The ability to see goodness and seek goodness and be goodness has been restored and now THIS feels normal. You’ve come undone.

So we see, it’s no secret society that teaches its privileged members some magic trick that makes your life awesome! There’s nothing to be taught. How can we be taught to live? We can only be reminded. A refresher of sorts.

Most of us today, when asked about our religious faith, proudly strut “I am not religious. I am spiritual.” It is fundamentally incorrect (I am itching to say stupid) to say this because every religion is a spiritual philosophy in itself.

Someone who digs deeper and tries to understand what being spiritual really means will realize that it simply means finding that balance in life. To be centered, is to be spiritual.

Meditation, chanting, prayers, mind-control offer highly practical tools that guide us into developing powerful, positive, strong and extremely potent minds that remain unruffled and balanced irrespective of the rubbish that goes on around us! So, if your boss’ only living wish is to make your life hell, being spiritually centered, i.e, knowing what really matters and what doesn’t, will give you the common sense to not bother, keep your head down and do your job, as opposed to, scream, yell, gossip, abuse, politicize and eventually quit! Same is the case with rejections that so often take the life out us, make us dejected, disappointed, complete wastes of nature!

Whether you follow a “mainstream” (for lack of a better word) religion, or a lesser known cult of a spiritual school of thought, if you can, without flinching an eyelid say that you’re able enough to remain happy, positive, strong in faith and hopeful even in the darkest of situations – then spiritual, religious, atheist, agnostic or Art of Living for that matter – call it whatever you like, you’re going the right way. The way doesn’t want a name, all it wants is for its travellers to be happy :-) How nice of it, isn’t it? The way makes your faith a straight line. Unwavering. Calm. At peace. At home.

So I shall take baba venky’s advice and read the book I’ve paid for. And maybe read another 10 that say the same thing. I shall keep reading them and applying them to make sense of the life that we’ve been given! And the only sense that one can make in life is to be happy. Irrespective. :-)

Quoting my dad here who had once said to me : “Beta, in life one should be an expert at being happy!” :-) 

Old hat, dad! Old hat! ;)

Thursday, June 14, 2012

How to use Windows Live Writer?

 
Windows Live Writer is a software that allows you to work on your Blogger, Wordpress and other blogs, but from the comforts of your own PC, with or without the Internet! Your blog remains the same, the address remains the same, but working on it gets a lot easier coz it somehow identifies the really irritating glitches and slow-sluggish processes that the online interfaces throw at us and neatly irons them out to give you a seamless blogging experience!
 
To sync your blog with Windows Live Writer, go to All Programs on your Windows Start Bar (that windows flag on the bottom left of your desktop)

Click on Windows Live Writer and follow self-explanatory instructions to install and get started.

Trust me, it makes blogging a breeze. You can even adopt your blog’s theme so it feels like you’re writing on your own blog, just with a smoother interface. You can even write offline and post whenever you log on (it allows for automatic publishing the next time you connect to the internet!)

You can sync as many blogs as you’d like from blogger, wordpress, younameit!
Totally surprised to know that it was in my PC all this while and I didn’t know about it! (if you don’t have it in your PC already, just download free Windows Live from Microsoft)
 
Still in the process of exploring all the cool features. Will keep you posted on all the handy stuff a writer usually needs :-)
Xx


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Man, this is really cool. I recommend this software to all the writers and bloggers who just cannot stand blogger’s new interface!

Xx

The love of literature knows no language..

Tum aaye toh tumse mohabbat hui
Tumse zyaada zindagi se mohabbat hui
Ab tum nahin par tumse mohabbat ab bhi hai
Zindagi se mohabbat nahin par jeene ki wajah tu ab bhi hai..

Sochte hain,
Zindagi koi mohabbat toh nahin
Jo aaye aur aakar reh jaaye
Woh toh tumhaari tarah hai
Aati hai chup chaap, dabey paoon, jaise ki aayi hi na ho
Aur jaati hai toh sholey hi sholey.


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Iss jaam ke nashe mein aansuon ka nasha bhula ne ki koshish karte hain
Jaam toh roz chaahe pee len
Magar inn aansuon ka kya karen
Jab har waqt aap humein rula ne koshish karte hain?

Friday, April 20, 2012

Ask And You Shall Receive





With all my heart I ask
And from my soul I seek
Lord, please help me out
For I'm really falling weak. 

I have been hurt by people I love
And it's hard to watch them go
Tell me it's that greater plan
That You have meant it so.

I've wondered why they do it
Time and time again
What joy do they derive?
In causing all this pain. 

They have nothing to say
They keep pushing me away
All alone and shattered
I come to You and pray.

Just tell me all is seen by You
Then nothing else will matter
Trusting in Your justice, I'll walk it through
The world can stay or scatter.

So I close my eyes for You to drop
A whisper in my heart 
That guides me on my way to You
And I shall play my part.

I strongly believe that God sends you help whenever you need it; you only have to believe and be open to signs, messages or seemingly strange events/coincidences that may of course appear in human forms but are actually divine help being sent specially for you because God knows you need it and you've asked for it :). 

You've gotta believe me, what I copy-paste below showed up on my screen when I really really needed and asked for an answer to EXACTLY this!  

Taken from the blog: Hannah's Cupboard


Forgive But Cut Ties?
The Question
When you forgive someone (and say you’ve done it more than once), is it okay to forgive for the last time and cut all ties with that person? Not have anything else to do with them?
WR From Nashville, Georgia
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The Answer
Part 1: Forgiveness
Part 2: Cutting ties
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Forgiveness (Part 1)

There is no limit to the number of times we are commanded to forgive someone so no, it is not okay to forgive them “for the last time.” Peter asked Jesus about this. He wondered if he had to forgive someone who had sinned against him, “Up to seven times?” Jesus replied, “’I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.’” (Matthew 18:21-22) He was telling Peter that forgiveness is required an unlimited number of times, as often as necessary.

Now let’s talk about the other part of the question: cutting all ties with the offending person. Forgiving someone and cutting ties are two separate issues. Sometimes it is wise and even necessary to cut all ties after the forgiveness has been given. From my perspective it’s possible to forgive AND cut ties. Let’s first discuss forgiveness.

Forgiveness is primarily an act of the will. You can forgive someone from your heart even if your emotional side doesn’t want to go along, especially at first. Sometimes the emotions follow but not always. Forgiveness basically releases the person from their offense as far as you are concerned. They don’t owe you anything. Rather, you let that sin be between them and God.

A second important thing to understand about forgiveness is that it is more for you than for them. That’s where a lot of people get stuck. They think if they forgive it means they are saying that what the person did was okay. No, it really means freedom for YOU from the residual effects of the sin: nursing a grudge, resentment, bitterness, retaliation etc.

How is it possible to forgive? The easiest way I know of is to meditate on your own great need for forgiveness. Rather than compare yourself to the one who offended you (where you might come up smelling like a rose), compare yourself to God’s righteousness where you will always come up short. “For all of us have become like one who is unclean, and all our righteous deeds are like a filthy garment.” (Isaiah 64:6) God has forgiven us. Who are we to deny forgiveness to another?

Cutting ties (Part 2)

You pose your question as a hypothetical but I’m sure that it is not hypothetical in your life. Some offense repeated over and over prompted your query. You feel at the end of your road and you want to cut all ties with the offender. Can you?

This is not necessarily all-inclusive but I think there are definitely two times where cutting ties is appropriate. The first one is for safety or protection for yourself or someone you are responsible for. For instance, if a relative sexually abused your child, you would definitely need to cut ties permanently. It is your responsibility to keep your child safe. Or, what if a friend stole something while in your house? What if it happened every time they had access? This serious breech of trust calls for action to deny them any further opportunity.
The other instance is not quite so clear-cut. It is the case where a relationship is so emotionally unhealthy it always gets the best of you. You fall into the same poisonous patterns over and over. Let me give an example of a woman I know where this very thing happened.

Janie was raised in a home where her parents were very controlling. By nature, Janie was more passive and that played into the domineering style of her mother particularly. Additionally, her parents were heavily involved in the occult and Janie had good reason to believe her grandmother had dedicated her to Satan when she was little.

As an adult, Janie found freedom in Christ and she broke off all the curses she had been raised with. Still, she could not seem to return to her parent’s house even for a visit without finding herself their victim once again. Her manipulative mother always somehow got the better of her. Finally she cut off all contact and made clear to them she was doing it and why. Until Janie can be victor rather than victim, I agree with her that’s the wisest decision.

You have the right to protect yourself and your family members from danger, whether physical or psychological. Forgiving someone has nothing to do with it. You can both forgive from your heart and then remove yourself from further offense. This may not be done as retaliation however. God knows your heart so there’s no use trying to fool him.

Always forgive without limit because Jesus has forgiven you without limit. But when it comes to the company you keep remember this: “He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” (Proverbs 13:20)